Tid-bit: Divorce
Any way you slice it, choosing to divorce someone is choosing yourself over whatever reasons/circumstance that made you stay as long as you did.
Any way you slice it, choosing to divorce someone is a courageous act.
Normalize congratulating people for divorcing. And wish them well.
Keep that same (marriage) energy. Both choices are powerful declarations (of something). Check your projections at the door. Whoever the formerly married person is, is probably tired of them by now.